Tus thawj tswj kev muag khoom uas paub yuav ua li cas thiaj nrhiav tau txoj hauv kev rau cov neeg siv khoom ib txwm tuaj yeem paub tseeb tias ua rau lawv tsis yuav khoom tsis yog lawv tuaj rau, tab sis cov khoom uas lawv tau qhia rau. Kev tshaj lij ntawm cov teeb meem no ncaj qha nyob ntawm kev paub ntawm neeg siv kev xav thiab kev siv lub luag haujlwm ntawm cov kev cai tseem ceeb ntawm kev sib txuas lus hauv lub neej xyaum.
Cov Lus Qhia
Kauj ruam 1
Thaum ntsib tus neeg yuav, thawj qhov khoom muag yuav tsum ua yog hais nyob zoo rau nws. Ntxiv mus, nws yog qhov tsim nyog hais tias kev txais tos yuav yog lub teeb thiab tsis yooj yim, thiab tseem nrog lub suab qab zib luag ntxhi. Tom qab txhua yam, raws li koj paub, nws yog qhov txais tos uas yog daim npav lag luam ntawm tus muag khoom thiab ib qho ntawm cov khoom siv ntawm cov neeg nyiam.
Kauj ruam 2
Tom qab tsim kev sib cuag thawj zaug nrog tus yuav, tus muag yuav tsum nug tam sim ntawd tus qhua ntawm lub qhov hluav taws xob lo lus nug: "Koj txaus siab rau dab tsi?" (lossis "Kuv tuaj yeem pab koj li cas?"). Nyob rau hauv qhov kev tshwm sim uas tus neeg yuav khoom nws tus kheej mus cuag tus muag khoom, cov lus hais tom qab txais tos yuav tsum yog "Kuv mloog koj."
Kauj ruam 3
Yog tias tus neeg yuav khoom tau thov tus muag khoom rau kev pab thaum nws tseem ua haujlwm rau lwm tus neeg siv, tus kws pab tswv yim yuav tsum thov zam txim thiab hais kom tus neeg nug nws tos lossis hu rau lwm tus kws tshaj lij (yog tias ua tau). Tab sis nyob rau qhov xwm txheej uas tau tsim zoo li no, tus muag yuav tsum tsis txhob hais tias: "Koj tsis pom tias kuv tsis khoom," cia li liam, tsa koj lub suab lossis qw ntawm cov neeg nyiam ntawm lub khw. Yog li, koj yuav tsis tsuas yog ua txhaum cov kev cai ntawm kev coj ua, tab sis tseem muab koj tus kheej tso rau qhov tsis zoo thiab tsis zoo.
Kauj ruam 4
Thaum koj tau txais kev ywj pheej, tam sim ntawd mus rau tus neeg yuav khoom uas tos koj, thov txim dua thiab hais tias koj npaj tau muab cov lus teb ntxaws ntxaws rau tag nrho nws cov lus nug.
Kauj ruam 5
Thaum muaj kev sib cuag nrog tus yuav, tus muag yuav tsum yog qhov tseeb thiab tseeb li sai tau. Koj yuav tsum tsis txhob dag ntxias tus neeg siv khoom thiab dag rau nws, piv txwv li, embellishing tus yam ntxwv ntawm ib qho khoom lag luam, vim hais tias kev dag yuav sai dua los sis tom qab tau qhia tawm. Raws li txoj cai, tus muag khoom tau muab tam sim ntawd los ntawm nws tus cwj pwm, kev coj tus cwj pwm thiab lub suab ntawm kev sib txuas lus. Ib qho ntxiv, tus muag yuav tsum tsis txhob zais nws qhov tsis txaus siab thiab tsis quav ntsej nws lub luag haujlwm rau ib tus neeg yuav khoom. Hauv qhov xwm txheej no, peb tab tom tham txog cov neeg muag khoom zoo li no uas ua txhua yam kev lav thiab txo nqi kom sai cov khoom muag thiab tsis siv sijhawm ntau ntawm ib tus neeg yuav khoom. Xws li tus cwj pwm yuav tsis tsuas yog cuam tshuam nrog cov qhua ntawm lub qhov hluav taws xob, tab sis kuj hloov tus cwj pwm ntawm kev ntseeg siab rau koj, ob sab ntawm tus neeg yuav thiab ib feem ntawm cov tub ceev xwm.
Kauj Ruam 6
Thaum kawg, tsis yog tsawg, tus neeg muag tau zoo yog tus muag khoom uas nyiam nws txoj haujlwm thiab muaj kev ntseeg siab rau nws. Nws yog tus neeg zoo li ntawd uas yuav tuaj yeem yaum thiab ua kom tus neeg yuav khoom yuav yam khoom no lossis yam khoom ntawd, thaum hais meej meej nws cov lus.
